How to create a strong bond with the one you love
Everyone likes to feel wanted, to think that
in the "It's a Wonderful Life" of their own life that things would go
to shit if they weren't around anymore. It's a really selfish, but a really
nice feeling, to know that you're instrumental in some way. So just like the
idea that he wants to feel supported by you, he might also want to feel like
he's the provider. These are a lot of base, primal, innate feelings that
can supercharge your brain into feeling love. People want to know why men fall
in love but I think what's really being asked here is what makes them stay in
love. It's likely some relationship gumbo of all of the above. A man might be
able to connect with lots of different partners in a lot of different ways, but
a truly fulfilling relationship is going to hit all these things in some way,
shape, or form. And what people are seeking out their needs and desires and how
those things are prioritized are what make people unique. It's how people come
to find their "soul mates" (if you're a romantic) or a "good
fit" (if you're a pragmatist). And as trite as the idea of two puzzles
pieces fitting together is, it's so stereotyped because it's so apt. You full
fill the needs of each other.
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